October 24, 2013
October 18, 2013
What does anyone want in life? Happiness. But what is happiness?
Here are the following few top moments in life that scream happiness. Do share your moments of happiness in the comment section below.
1. Coming Back Home
2. Growing Old With Someone You Love
3. The Unconditional Love From Your Pets
4. Make Your Family Proud
5. Shopping With Your Own Money
6. Making Memories
[All images from Flickr]
October 7, 2013
The first reason being the most basic- human beings are not meant to be alone. We are social creatures.
This is not limited to your 'special someone'. I think everyone, at any given moment, is missing someone or the other. It can be parents, siblings, best friends, long lost cousins, grandparents, exes (this usually comes in your intoxicated state).. the list is very long. Its just human nature, and boy does it SUCK.
Another closely connected reason would be- That everyone has a story to tell.
Everyone is the lead actor of their own life, and not everyone wants to hear about yours. Except your 'special someone'. I never underestimate the power of sharing, and for some people its not that easy to share. But when you have that one person you can text or call, whether rain or shine, it just gives more meaning to life. In my country there's a saying- 'happiness is multiplied, and sadness is divided, when you share with others.' (Yes that's a maths pun)
There are many other reasons as to what is the best part about being in a
relationship. It could be emotional support, physical satisfaction,
psychological well-being or all of the above.
For me, the best part about being in a relationship is Being In Love.
When you truly fall in love with someone, you fall in love with yourself.
And that's just something everyone deserves.
September 28, 2013
Love. Oh and the hype surrounding it.
A constant battle, but with simple rules; Love is fragile. And it always will be.
September 7, 2013
August 6, 2013
Here I am. And here is tomorrow. Leaving tomorrow night for Beijing. I have been religiously going to the bank for roughly a month now and yet again, tomorrow will be another bank day. Yes. More last minute crap to deal with. Bua and my cousin Ila are still here. As if there wasn't enough going on in KD 16. I am sitting at the dentist office, my feet drenched from muddy water. Came here straight from the CA's office, and guess what I'm going there again tomorrow. Read another email from the cray that are dad's emails. My relationship is going down the drain. Life is not really a friend right now, more of a bully. All I'm hoping for is the right direction. I don't want to waste another minute doing what I'm not suppose to. I want to feel connected to the world. I want to feel acceptance and appreciated.
July 27, 2013
Even from the very beginning, for example, from the moment you are born- you are categorized to whom, which side you resemble, you parent’s friends will compliment on your looks almost every time they see you, to the very first day of school where you will most definitely be judged and again, categorized as a fat/skinny/cute/pretty/not-so-pretty kid. I’m not even going to include how important looks are to most, if not all, adolescents in high school and how you create an image for yourself along the years covering college, post college and I’m just going to go ahead and insert the rest of your natural born life here<>.
Are we giving enough space to these qualities in our lives?
My question is: Is it really that hard to be content? Or are we just making it look like that?
July 18, 2013
Date Today : 18th July 2013
Next Update : July 2023
Date Today : 18th July 2013
Next Update : July 2023
June 24, 2013
June 23, 2013
This is quite unfamiliar.
You spend some time here. Ultimately, deciding this is not as comfortable as it seems, its rather a vague nothing you are now in. It doesn't feel so good anymore. This space either propels you to shoot out stronger, better or you become the victim of its slow but sure fall.
So... How do you save yourself from yourself?
You make your choices, one event in your life altered, and then another. As far as I've understood life, the mind craves peace. Stability. Marry your morals and principles and you will never drift off from the core you. It is impossible to lose yourself on the foundation of such strong beliefs. Marry your life. Commit to the one person you want in your life forever - You. Commit to self made rules and you will avoid the risk of going insane.
So... How do you keep yourself from being nobody but yourself?
Salvation is in the mind. God might judge our lives and make of what was black and white. But where does God live after all? You are the evergreen judge of you. Salvation is within your core. You have the key. Question is ..Are you living up to the person you really are?
So... Now that you're here, what are you looking for?
Acceptance or affection or peace? We all come back to the universal answer - Happiness.
So... How do you define Happiness?
Creatures that almost desperately but definitely need something to believe in. Whether call it God, Energy, Power, a certain person or a group of people. Almost magic how one thread of rejection can tear our world down. And that one thread can bring us one level above.